Sexual relations are an important part of a healthy man's life. Sexual arousal in men can occur under the influence of various factors: the appearance of a woman, erotic touches, memories of past intimacy. The sexual response of the stronger sex is a combination of physiological and emotional outbursts that must ultimately cause orgasm.
Signs of arousal in men
Sexual arousal is the human body's response to sexual stimulation. Its strength and duration depend on hormonal levels, well-being and anthropological characteristics (height, hair color).
The desire that arises in its manifestations resembles stress:
- breathing rate and heart rate increase;
- pupils dilate;
- voice and behavior changes;
- blood pressure increases;
- muscle tension occurs;
- lumps appear on the skin;
- saliva increases.
Excitation process:
- In men, the main sign of sexual desire is the erection of the penis. Blood flow increases the length and diameter of the organ several times. Height increase is an individual indicator; a small penis grows more during an erection. Straightens and becomes strong. The changes that have occurred contribute to the introduction of the penis into the vagina.
- With the transition to intimacy, the man's arousal increases and with it all the reactions of the body. Heart rate, blood pressure and muscle tension increase. The rhythmic rubbing of the penis against the vaginal walls is a powerful irritant.
- To prolong sexual intercourse, it is recommended to temporarily stop rubbing to reduce tension. Discharge appears in the erect penis, which is not something to be afraid of. This is a pre-seminal fluid that plays an important role in conception.
- Orgasm is the peak of pleasure, it is the shortest moment of sexual response, lasting only a few seconds. It is accompanied by an explosion of sperm. In men, the muscles of the body contract, various sounds may be emitted involuntarily, and a feeling of euphoria appears.
- The release of sperm occurs due to the rhythmic contractions of smooth muscles. It starts with small portions, gradually increasing the volume of sperm. After the first vibrations, nothing will stop the man from ejaculating. Each ejaculation is accompanied by sexual pleasure, especially in the area of the head and body of the penis.
- After orgasm, the body returns to its normal state. The muscles relax, blood flows from the penis and the organ decreases in size. A refractory period begins, during which the man is not excited even by physical impact on the penis.
- The refraction phase is the time that the stronger sex has to recover before a new erection. It does not have a specific duration and can vary from a few minutes to an hour. With age, this gap grows. The angle of erection of the penis in most cases reaches 60-90 degrees. The maximum peak occurs at 20 years, and after 50, the angle decreases significantly.
Discharges in men when they are excited
Viscous transparent discharge from an erect penis is a normal physiological process. Lubrication in men during awakening occurs with the help of pre-ejaculate. This colorless sticky fluid is released through the urethra in preparation for intercourse or during masturbation.
The source of lubrication is Cooper's glands. Their secretions contain many enzymes and mucus.
A transparent secret performs several functions:
- isolates the remaining urine in the urethra;
- partially neutralizes the acidic environment of the vagina;
- lubricates the urethra for sperm passage;
- Ejaculation promotes painless intercourse.
The volume of lubrication varies significantly between men. It can range from a few drops to 5 ml or more. The main purpose of pre-ejaculation is to prepare a favorable environment for sperm. Pre-seminal fluid neutralizes the acidity of the vagina, increasing sperm survival and the chances of getting pregnant.
For partners who prefer to interrupt coitus for contraception, the question arises of the likelihood of pregnancy if the lubricant comes into contact with them. Studies of the composition of pre-ejaculate have shown that there is no seed in it. But with repeated sexual intercourse, the remaining seminal fluid stored in the urethra enters the discharge.
Lack or excessive lubrication in men does not affect their sexual relations. Each manifestation is individual, there are no strict patterns to which you must fit. Enjoy intimacy without fear or prejudice.
A type of "lubrication" of the head of the penis is smegma. These discharges are not related to sexual arousal. A white, fat-like substance facilitates movement of the head of the penis as it exits the foreskin. But a large accumulation of smegma causes inflammation of the skin of the penis and other problems. To prevent this from happening, it is necessary to wash the smegma every day.
How to excite a man
A man's sexual desire depends on many factors. If during his youth he is turned on by the simple thought of intimacy, then with age this is not enough.
To increase the libido of a partner, a woman will need special liberators or stimuli. It's in men's nature to judge you visually, so strike attractive poses to excite a man, wear sexy lingerie, let your hair down. The appearance of naked female organs and signs of desire from the partner also contribute to the appearance of a reciprocal impulse.
Various stimuli help promote stronger sex:
- auditory;
- visual;
- sense of smell;
- touching;
- erotic fantasy, movies and more.
You have to approach the awakening of sexual desire in a man individually.
- To do this, it is worth studying his habits and preferences in music, food, smells, etc. Aphrodisiacs help increase desire, they can be spices, foods, drinks, aromatic oils.
- Among the known pathogens of sexual activity: nuts, seafood, grape wine, herbs, herbs, fruits.
- The scent of patchouli oil increases sensuality and testosterone production. Young people will appreciate the scent of tangerine, verbena or cedar oil; a mature partner will like juniper or sandalwood.
- Before preparing a romantic evening with an aromatic lamp, you should find out if the chosen one is allergic to the prepared aphrodisiac.
- For some men, words can be a powerful stimulant. Certain phrases, from subtle signs of intimacy to overt lust, evoke sexual activity in partners. Fairness is appropriate when communicating with a known object of passion, and any man will like to talk about sexuality or praise the appearance.
- Touching with varying intensity is a direct way to excite a partner. Monotony is harmful to sexual activity; to attract the desired man, a woman will have to use experiments.
- You can start with a relaxing massage, gradually covering different erogenous zones and points. Touching breasts and nipples turns on the stronger sex no less than women. Give your partner the full range of sensations from gentle stroking and kissing to biting.
- Don't overlook the back and buttocks - here a light massage can end with sensitive nails.
- Inner thighs are another source of pleasure for men; soft or hard touches are chosen by the partners themselves. For caresses you should use not only hands and lips, but the whole body. A man's stomach is one of the most erogenous areas. Exploring its language will be a real pleasure. The partner's closeness to the penis, languishing and waiting will quickly lead to an erection.
- The penis is an erogenous zone for every man, its stimulation will certainly lead to the climax of happiness. The most sensitive and delicate part of the body is the head. Touching and stimulating with her tongue will make your partner forget everything in the world. Having studied the most sensitive points of a man, you can give him real pleasure.
Stimulant drugs
Why do men experience decreased sexual activity? There can be many answers to this question: stress, past illnesses, age, fatigue and other reasons.
Pills for men to stimulate sexual desire will perfectly cope with the problem:
- Leader among stimulant drugs. The pills, originally designed to treat heart problems, have become a powerful and fast stimulant.
- A drug from the group of PDE-5 inhibitors, the active ingredient of which improves erection. The drug does not affect the functioning of the heart and liver, and also does not change the composition of sperm.
- A Chinese medicine based on ginseng and deer antlers, which has fewer side effects.
Consequences of excitement without release
Sexual excitement does not always end in intercourse. The body, prepared for release from orgasm, remains in an overactive state. If such situations are once in nature, there is nothing to fear; they do not threaten health and strength.
What does a man feel when he gets excited without release:
- discomfort or pain in the testicles, slight swelling;
- discomfort in the penis;
- tingling in the back of the head;
- lower abdominal pain.
Of these symptoms, pain in the testicles deserves special attention. This organ is important for men's health. It is responsible for the production of testosterone and sperm. If the genitals are healthy, the discomfort will disappear after 4 hours.
Pain in the testicles can be a signal of the disease. If their size, density has changed or the pain has become sharp and strong, then you should visit a doctor.
Sexual desire is an important part of a person's sex life. When a man wakes up, it is better to use several methods, alternating their sequence. This will give amazing results.